Have you ever wondered how words are actually hard to say? Okay, maybe not say. But they are pretty hard to control.
For example, one person gets pissed off, it'll be hard for him to say non-offending or mean words. 'GO AWAY! SHADDUP YOU EFFIN IDIOT! JUST GO DIE!' Like that.. :P
Words are just words, someone told me. But for me, they may be JUST words, but I'd say it with my real feelings. If I was to be a person to just say words without any feeling in it, then yes, those words may just be words. But for me, why say it when it's just words? Not feelings?
Anger is just one of it. What if you felt sad, you have nothing to say, because you feel as if you might just cry if you did. If something happened, some people would think, 'Oh, hell with it.. I don't care..' or some would think, 'aahhh.. it's all my fault!'
But main issues for me is what to say to comfort someone. I don't want to be someone to make it worst, but by saying nothing is just as bad, because I would honestly feel worthless and useless. 'What do I do... What do I say..' I would be worrying about that.
Words may also have a big impact on people. Like from my previous blog, if a friend were to say, 'It seems that my feelings don't matter to you', you'd be shocked, and scared. 'Have I been selfish all this time..?' one would think. What if you were to say, 'I honestly don't care about who you like now' to a friend, it would hurt them to know as she or he would think, 'maybe he doesn't care about me..'
But keep in mind, words without feelings may also hurt. 'No one cares~' Someone might just sing to you. But those words get stuck in your mind, and you will start to think that no one cares.
And for one, words may heal your wounds. ^^ A long letter filled with your feelings, may move someone. You could actually think of words that was able to cheer him or her up!
So from what I think, words may just be words. But they're very strong. :3 So, try not to say irrelevant stuff.
Buuuut, this is just what I THINK, doesn't necessarily means it's true for everyone!
For example, one person gets pissed off, it'll be hard for him to say non-offending or mean words. 'GO AWAY! SHADDUP YOU EFFIN IDIOT! JUST GO DIE!' Like that.. :P
Words are just words, someone told me. But for me, they may be JUST words, but I'd say it with my real feelings. If I was to be a person to just say words without any feeling in it, then yes, those words may just be words. But for me, why say it when it's just words? Not feelings?
Anger is just one of it. What if you felt sad, you have nothing to say, because you feel as if you might just cry if you did. If something happened, some people would think, 'Oh, hell with it.. I don't care..' or some would think, 'aahhh.. it's all my fault!'
But main issues for me is what to say to comfort someone. I don't want to be someone to make it worst, but by saying nothing is just as bad, because I would honestly feel worthless and useless. 'What do I do... What do I say..' I would be worrying about that.
Words may also have a big impact on people. Like from my previous blog, if a friend were to say, 'It seems that my feelings don't matter to you', you'd be shocked, and scared. 'Have I been selfish all this time..?' one would think. What if you were to say, 'I honestly don't care about who you like now' to a friend, it would hurt them to know as she or he would think, 'maybe he doesn't care about me..'
But keep in mind, words without feelings may also hurt. 'No one cares~' Someone might just sing to you. But those words get stuck in your mind, and you will start to think that no one cares.
And for one, words may heal your wounds. ^^ A long letter filled with your feelings, may move someone. You could actually think of words that was able to cheer him or her up!
So from what I think, words may just be words. But they're very strong. :3 So, try not to say irrelevant stuff.
Buuuut, this is just what I THINK, doesn't necessarily means it's true for everyone!
